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Episode 88: New York Times bestselling cookbook author Jake Cohen returns to the podcast to discuss everything from Katie Couric's Tupperware to making Kiddush on Fire Island. Jake's new cookbook, 'I Could Nosh' will be released September 12th and is available for pre-order now!
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Finally , let's go with the Welcome to Andy's Modi . And here we are , back at Andy's Modi . Hi everyone . We have in the studio today Jake Cohen .
Speaker 2Hi , jake , welcome back . I'm so excited to be back . It's been such a journey since last time .
Speaker 3Yes , you were here episode 56 , which was back in December , and this will be episode 80 , something .
Speaker 1Wow , 80 deep , 88 , 89 . Yeah , one of those .
Speaker 3Welcome back . I think we've gotten a little bit better since you've been here .
Speaker 2I mean also . It's just like our relationship has changed .
Speaker 1Oh , completely , we are family , we are family , we are family , truly .
Speaker 3We are family . Bread has been broken .
Speaker 2Bread has been broken , drinks have been had . There is no connection like moving into a house with someone . I always say it's like the only way to get close with someone is to like replicate real world .
Speaker 3Absolutely yes , yes .
Speaker 1That's basically what that was .
Speaker 3So to fill you guys in , if you case you haven't been following .
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Speaker 1And their website is WhitesLuxcom . And Seth is from A and H is our friend , and Arthur Luxembourg a close friend of the podcast . And now their family , their podcast family . And again , living with you in the house was an experience . What house , what house ? Okay , we went to Fire Island together , we . Last time we were here , we spoke about it . Kim Kushner made the shirrdech when we ate at her house that you and I and us , we're going to all be would be great for Shabbat dinner together . And you said to us , we found a Fire Island house . It has an extra room and those of you who don't know what Fire Island house is , let's subscribe this .
Speaker 3So we have a quarter share , which means we get five weeks spread throughout the summer . So you get like a week in May , a week in June , a month , a week a month , basically . And so we're coming up on our final week for Labor Day . So it will be our fifth week hanging out together in the house in Fire Island .
Speaker 1Yeah , and so it's . Everybody gets a room . It's a house , it's on the bay , there's a deck , it's stunning . The house is massive . Everybody has their own little vinkel , their own little corner in the house and there's a kitchen . That's gorgeous and you can entertain , and Jake is entertaining and I cannot explain to you .
Speaker 1So when you have this , they take turns cooking and all that . We didn't have to , jake , the food you made was unbelievable . And then we have another person that's in the house , michael Kleinman , who always tries to impress you by his cooking which is good .
Speaker 2He's a great cook . He's a great cook . He's a great cook , which is great , cause I love a night off , that's it Right .
Speaker 1And he killed it with a few dishes he made and barbecued and he was ordering things from the mainland . It was crazy , and we ate a lot of the recipes from your , from your book yes , from your second cookbook I Could Nosh , which comes out September 12th .
Speaker 2Yes , yes , it's fine , cause I've talked about this a lot . I was just with with Isaac Mizrahi , who we're making that shidah with too , cause he's obsessed with you too , and it was about the Tupperware of cake that I would bring every time , this legendary Tupperware , the legendary .
Speaker 1Well , tell them how this Tupperware is . So it was it was .
Speaker 2it was Katie Kirk's Tupperware that she gave me cause we , we hang out and we cook and she's like , oh , take this Tupperware . It was . This is like crazy backstory to it . So it was meaningful to her and it became our tradition because I was baking something . It was right before we were leaving for Fire Island . I just like flipped the cake out into the Tupperware , slapped the lid on and brought it out and that was the upside down banana bread that we like picked at .
Speaker 1Amazing Wow .
Speaker 2It's a tradition that every week I'll bring a Tupperware full of cake .
Speaker 3In the Katie Kirk Tupperware . In the Katie Kirk Tupperware .
Speaker 2It was in the Katie Kirk .
Speaker 1But is it ? Can we tell the backstory of where that Tupperware ?
Speaker 2came from or no , we can I , I it was , it was , it's just , it was from her , her late husband's funeral , and she and someone brought it to her and she gave me this whole story when she . She gave it to me so I was like , oh , I have to give it back to her .
Speaker 1So , like you have to understand , we're in the house and the cake is there and everybody just it's not , no one cuts it up and takes it . We just take our forks and dig in like like Behame is like animals , but for me , every time I took it out , I would always say is the chronal of Racha , of blessed memory .
Speaker 3It was Katie Kirk's ex . Well , it's like your joke about the Shiva that everyone's bringing their food to the house . Yeah but it was . It was a special cake .
Speaker 1And then and then , one of the highlights we had , highlights and lowlights for the Jewish community yes , yes , so in Fire Island , you , you , you have your home with whoever your friends are , and there's people who have their own home and then people who have you . It's a rental , like an Airbnb , but like it's special because you have to really organize and be in harmony with everybody in the house . And Jake , if people don't know , is famous for his Hala . Yes , there's cookbook , he's famous for a lot of things .
Speaker 2This is cookbook coming out and he's the best thing .
Speaker 1He's famous for many things , but the Hala is unbelievable . If you are blessed enough to have a Jake Cohen Hala , you've made it Very special .
Speaker 2You've made it no privilege .
Speaker 1When you get a video of you receiving a Jake Cohen Hala . So now we knew that there were a lot of Jewish people on the island , jewish guys . They were all over the island and and we figured you know what , every night we eat this Hala . Jake said let's do an invitation . We'll have , I'll make , instead of two Hala's , four , five , six , whatever you made . They'll all come over . We'll make kiddish , we'll make , we eat the Hala , everybody have a little bit , and then they'll all go back to their homes for their respective dinners .
Speaker 3They weren't all eating at our house . This was Jake's workaround to everyone trying to invite themselves to our Shabbat . That is true , that is .
Speaker 2it's like what are you guys doing for Shabbat ? What are you doing for Shabbat ? Everyone wanted an invite to Shabbat and we love , we love taking in stragglers for Shabbat .
Speaker 3You love but 50 people .
Speaker 2But it's like we are a house of seven or eight and we like to get to 12 , max 10 really is like the sweet spot for Shabbat .
Speaker 1Yeah , absolutely .
Speaker 2And so that we can have like a conversation . It could be meaningful , that's not a catering hall .
Speaker 1It's not a catering hall . No , it's not a soup kitchen either .
Speaker 2We ended up with like like 40 , 50 guys in the house 40 , 50 guys came to the house to hear kiddish .
Speaker 1To hear kiddish . They wouldn't have heard kiddish , they wouldn't have had a Hala , never mind a Jake Cohen Hala . And they came in and we're on the beach . Yeah , that's great .
Speaker 2Everybody's in bathing suits and everybody's in speed ups and everybody's in everybody's in tank tops and yamakas .
Speaker 1And I brought . For some reason that week I grabbed a bunch of yamakas and threw them into my bag and we had it and you made and for some reason you wore and you had a green crop top . Yes For more company-centered too .
Speaker 2It's this Instagram account that a lot of people probably familiar with called Old Jewish Men , and it's a female crop top that says Pickle Princess , and it was just , I mean what you doesn't love pickles and it's just funny . It's very camp . It's the perfect kind of like intersection of Jewish gay culture .
Speaker 1So it was like why not , and I had , and you wore green shorts and this was green .
Speaker 2I looked like a giant pickle .
Speaker 1I happened to have a green satin yamaka , because my rabbi , gav , which was a friend of the podcast , always makes yamakas for the shul and this was one of the Purim yamakas . We had it said adaloyadayana and anyway . So Jake's outfit was green , green , green . It was amazing . He made the , you made the blessing on the candles , you made , I made the kiddish and you did the khala , and now there's 60 people , 50 guys , standing around Again , all in bathing suits , tank tops , casual . The whole island is casual . This went on line .
Speaker 2Someone taped . You guys made the blessing .
Speaker 1Someone taped us .
Speaker 2With the intention of how beautiful is that With the intention of what Mashiach energy is happening here .
Speaker 3You're on a sandbar . You're on a sandbar eating .
Speaker 1Jake Kowon khala , hearing kiddish making Hamotsi . This is amazing . So it went out . Many people were like this is wonderful , I wish I could be there , I wish my son was there , I wish this was there . And then there were the nasty people , the really horrible , horrible people who were judgy . Why would you make kiddish wearing that ? Why would you do ? And it brought me right to this thought of one of my gurus , dr Wayne Dyer . He always said when you judge somebody , you're not defining them , you're defining yourself as someone who needs to judge . So when they're saying , you know , it's their problem , it's their , they're judging themselves . Why would you wear shorts when you're making kiddish ? That was it .
Speaker 3Let's be real . Their issue was not with the shorts , their issue was with it was a group of gays , a group of gays , but it's their problem .
Speaker 1And you know usually , the more you have a problem with something is because that problem is within you .
Speaker 3Yes , someone who ?
Speaker 1doesn't have a problem with gay or homosexuality , has , just okay , this gay guy's making kiddish gizunthehate . Enjoy yourself . If you are digging and writing and pulling up , slugging up Gamorahs and Torah , you have a problem with it . I'll give you an example . I have a friend , brian Gross . He's a guy who run jokes by a friend of mine . He's my litmus test in the Orthodox Jewish community because he's in there , but he's normal . But he's normal . So I on the phone I'm running some material by him and he says to me I saw the video . I go , okay , no . So he says I have no problem with it , which means others have a problem with it , right . And then he says to me in his little tone he says to me let me ask you a question by gay people is it always Purim ?
Speaker 3Yes , the answer is yes . Yes , it is yes , and you should live your life the same way and you should live your life always Purim .
Speaker 1Enjoy yourself , wear something fun .
Speaker 2This conversation comes up a lot . We love , like a a a Shabbos debate , I think , in true Jewish fashion . We love an opportunity to gather community and debate Torah culture community . I think we're seeing this on and on , going with like there are a million reasons why we need to be doing this right now , but once something has been coming up a lot in the instance of that , and what we did is this concept of modernizing tradition in order to have it still be a part of Jewish life . Where we look at this group of 50 guys and if it wasn't for us creating this space of Shabbat through our lens , then they just wouldn't be doing it and they would just be leaving Jewish tradition behind . And it's the conversation of is it better to adhere to what is defined as traditional or Orthodox or is it better to create something that is sustainable , so it becomes part of their daily life , of living Jewish value , and that that's like . Everything I'm about is like how do we continue Jewish value Through the lens of like , how it works for you ?
Speaker 3And that's very well said and very beautiful . I guess my problem was just like and then I'm gonna drop this , cause I wanna talk about the book was that just everyone's main point down to being you can't be Jewish and gay at the same time ? And that's where you hit a wall with me .
Speaker 1And again , it's you can't be , it's you they can't . They're in their own world struggling , and they're nasty , it's always people with like no profile picture and like one post and I'm like .
Speaker 3And then they put they said that man Sean outlawing with man , he should be put to death . And I literally responded to one . I was like I'll send you my address . Come try to like put me to death .
Speaker 2There's nothing I want more than like you have a confrontation . I favor you . It's gonna be Leo and I in a ring .
Speaker 3And we would take them cause we work out .
Speaker 1Oh , I have no patience for them , I don't . It's the . Let me explain to you something . They're already punished , of course , because they're themselves , they live with themselves .
Speaker 3And they have no gays in the right .
Speaker 1They have no horrible existence to be that you have a problem with 50 gay men making kiddos and having Hamotsi . You have a problem with that , then you really have your own problem . You really . You're a sad person Like jealousy . What's the what's the ? What's the punishment of jealousy , jealousy ? What's the punishment of being judgy and being judgmental is that you are that person . You poor thing . I feel so bad for them . That's why I don't come for them . And when that one guy came for us the Yoysel and Mansi I that I no , no , but he did it with Torah behind him . I'll give you , I'll give you Torah behind it . I'll give you , don't , don't , don't come to me with that .
Speaker 1But this is people never would have heard Kirish that day . Maybe , maybe this , maybe some of them left and said I think we should do this every Friday , I think , whatever , and it's their Shabbos , it's not your Shabbos , it's their Shabbos and that's what it is . Period , and there is nothing better for a Shabbos than a recipe from Jake Cohen . I could not Period Emmys 100% . I was . I will not .
Speaker 2Well , I could not , I could not . It's been the funniest thing throughout the summer Modi getting the name .
Speaker 1You're not dyslexic . You know I can . You should be glad I got some of the words .
Speaker 2I love it . I love it .
Speaker 3So how has it been ? So the book comes out September 12th , yes , and you're doing a big event at the Stryker .
Speaker 2Center . Yes , is that how you say it Stryker Center , stryker Center .
Speaker 3With Isaac Mazzarahi right .
Speaker 2Yes .
Speaker 3And so what do you ? How does the book tour work , Like , where are you going ? What do you ?
Speaker 1do . I will just set one thing up . Jake went into the summer like this I am letting my hair down , and by hair down , hair off . I am letting my hair down because you are ready to go . This was your summer to relax before you go on the road .
Speaker 2I mean , you know the drill . It's funny because I feel like Modi doing this . All right , and then it's tour , september 12th , the Stryker Center in New York .
Speaker 3Yeah , you gotta push it .
Speaker 2I did a tour for my last book . That was like hybrid . So it was like because it was still like COVID-ish , so it was like half in person , half virtual . This is my first time doing like full on the road , nonstop and like bigger venues , which is a blessing . So I'm launching in a lot of Jewish places because that's where that's home , that's where it's a great place to start with community . So , launching at the Stryker Center on September 12th with Isaac Mizrahi , then we go to Joy-Z doing words bookstore in Maplewood with Taffy Ackner , the incredible Jewess who wrote Fleischman's in Trouble , and then we take a quick break for Rosh Hashanah and then I'm back to do Toronto and then it's Yom Kapor and then I go to Philly where I'm doing the Weitzman Center with Mike Salamanov , and then we head to the guest of the show .
Speaker 2Exactly , we head to LA where I'm doing the Skirball Center with Alex Edelman . Yes , as a guest of the show . And then I do San Francisco . When you say with Alex Edelman , what does that mean In conversation like , for example , if you weren't on your crazy Euro in rail tour , you would be doing one of these conversations with us on stage talking about the book . Maybe we do a demo and then I go into the book signing .
Speaker 1By the way , I am very good in a demo and I now have a chef code that says Modi .
Speaker 2I am demoed . Listen , you know , the first thing I did was checked your tour schedule . It saw that you were out of town on the tail . Yeah , otherwise you know we would have been there .
Speaker 2You would be there , yeah , so it's really fun because this is like the moment where you get to see an IRL and , unlike , I think , the In real life , those of you who don't know In real life Because I do not know the big difference which is so fascinating , is so much of what I do on this tour is like splitting up my time into like these little vignettes with every person , since , like you're going , you're signing , you're talking and people have like a quick moment to share with you so they're giving like the biggest punch . It's like their favorite recipe of yours , some family history , how they're connected to you .
Speaker 1Oh , my aunt's mother knows your grandma , yeah , yeah , yeah , all this stuff .
Speaker 2And it's both like incredibly beautiful stuff , some like more touching stuff , cause food is so integrated in people's lives , both positive and a lot of like incredible memories around people who have passed , and to be a part of that journey is special , and that's what I want with this book . I think with the first book it was so rooted around the holidays , so rooted around like big celebrations , shabon , and this book is about like everyday Jewish hospitality . I always say this is like my grandma hospitality book of like embracing that vibe that we kind of really grew up with , or it's like someone's coming over . How am I going to feed them quickly ?
Speaker 3Just a little , not a whole meal , not a whole production , just like a little , a notch , a notch .
Speaker 2But the people think that's like oh , a snack . Well , when you think , when I think of , like my grandmother , my mother-in-law , a lot of these are big , like big scale items that then you keep in the fridge and the freezer , so you have leftovers for days .
Speaker 1Oh , you're hungry .
Speaker 2Let me heat you up a plate of this . Let me heat you up a bowl of that . Always have something sweet out on the counter . I was coming here . The funny thing is it's like obviously I forgot to bring the physical book . Why ? Because I was so set on bringing some cake for Leo .
Speaker 3Because this is your favorite . He brought cake everyone . If you could .
Speaker 1You can't even imagine how good that is .
Speaker 3We are getting their multi-cam views right Just because .
Speaker 1I'm a single wife , I have a good one on me . I have a good shop on me . This is not the Katie Kirk Tupperware . There's not the Katie Kirk Tupperware . Let me open it , keep it on me , let's see how . Oh , oh , you can't really , it's just Lift it up , yeah , ah .
Speaker 3So this is .
Speaker 1Are you on my camera , ha ?
Speaker 2ha , ha ha , oh God , all smushed because this is , it's so good Simice cake .
Speaker 1But we just in the house , we just chicken the ticking , the ticking , the ticking . So what's the Simice cake ? What's like this ?
Speaker 2So it's like a play on carrot cake but inside it's carrots and sweet potatoes and prunes and cinnamon and orange zest , so it's all of the kind of flavors of Simice into a carrot cake with cream cheese frosting . And the best part is it's like this is very decadent and dairy . The cake itself is parved . So I remember when we , when you came over for Hanukkah , I did a version that a friend taught me . It's like whenever you have a parved cake and you need a frosting , you just take cookie butter like Biscoff cookie butter and whip it up with powdered sugar and it's like the perfect parved frosting , voila .
Speaker 1Voila . No , but that Until this podcast I never looked really understood between having you , mike Salamanoff and who else . But that it's your Mashiach energy . Food is your Mashiach energy . It's insane . I didn't ever realize that . And we had Jackie on . She was like , yeah , I was . When I was groomed with my mother I grew up Such a talent , it's such a Mashiach energy in food Me .
Speaker 2It's comedy , yeah yeah , of course , maybe people laugh , people happy .
Speaker 1That's my Mashiach energy . This reveal Mashiach through that . You know and you . It's the food .
Speaker 2It's the food , but I do think that I think you've gotten to know that , like my first job , first and foremost is a shatchan like making shirrachs is my .
Speaker 3It is literally . Jake loves to make shirrach .
Speaker 1Who did you make shirrach with ? With Sarah Pasig .
Speaker 3Yeah , sarah .
Speaker 1Pasig , that's one of many .
Speaker 2What a very oh I do romantic .
Speaker 1People you should know . Shirrach does not mean who you're getting married with and that's it . Shirrach is also friends . Kim Kushner , we cannot thank you enough for making this shirrach with the Fire Island .
Speaker 2We knew each other Completely .
Speaker 1But we that the Shabbat dinner of yours , when you had the house and all that that was at the shirrach .
Speaker 2She made multiple shirrachs . Now Dr Amy Wexler is now my dermatologist , like it's literally .
Speaker 1Michael Rubberport , yeah .
Speaker 2Michael Rubberport .
Speaker 1We met him at Kim Kushner's house .
Speaker 2Wow .
Speaker 1She made that shirrach , it's a shirrach . Yeah , it's you , it is a talent , it's a talent .
Speaker 2When you do that over a meal , with food , you connect people . It's something that it's very interesting because it's a discipline I've had to take in where I have thrown these big shabbats , I've made these crazy connections of people and there's a lot of instances where I connect people who then become closer with each other than they are with me and there is something that's also kind of , but you have to be beautiful and you have to really know that it makes you happy .
Speaker 1Exactly Because isn't the hey , go be friends , Send them off on their way Exactly You're with her and now I've made .
Speaker 2Now you're going to Israel and your tour I was a great . You're the people that you need to meet and tell of you .
Speaker 1Because that's the goal . That's always the goal . Yes , you have to create a vibe too . When you create the vibe and at a Shabbat dinner , things like that happen , you get that yeah .
Speaker 3So not to switch gears too hard , but the video of your mom seeing the book for the first time .
Speaker 1Oh the sister too .
Speaker 3Oh , so sweet .
Speaker 1Oh , my God .
Speaker 3It's like your mom is so adorable . It was so sweet seeing her reaction , how she some must be so proud .
Speaker 2Yeah , it's actually the thing that people say the most to me when I'm on tour , when I'm anywhere that they love your mom . They're like oh you know , your mother must be so proud , oh my gosh . That's the number one thing that I get which I love , and this , like this book , I dedicated to my sister , who's truly my best friend , but also the pickiest eater in the world , so it's a good book .
Speaker 1There's a story behind you , derek . You also wrote . You gave her a shtech but in the Derek , it wasn't just a .
Speaker 2I love you thing . It was like , hmm , you gave her a shtech . There was just one recipe in this book which I love . It there Havdala Snickerdoodle . So there's Snickerdoodle cookies that you use , which are delicious , by the way especially coming home from dancing all night .
Speaker 1That is true .
Speaker 2They are .
Speaker 1If you were dancing all night and come home at 4 am and you are hungry , you should put that .
Speaker 2That's a .
Speaker 1Snickerdoodle with the jelly on top , oh my God . Or the Tempty Cream .
Speaker 2Cheese .
Speaker 1Tempty Cream Cheese , by the way . That's the sponsor of our Fire Island house 1980 , it literally is the 1980 Tempty Cream Cheese .
Speaker 3I see that . So what was that recipe with your sister , the ?
Speaker 2Snickerdoodle , so Havdala Snickerdoodle . So there's Snickerdoodles that use all of the spices from the Havdala spice box . So it's like , instead of doing that , it's like , oh for Havdala , bake up thing of cookies , make your whole kitchen smell like to awaken the senses . And she hates it . Has rosewater and cardamom , which rose petals , and caramel , both part of the Havdala spice box . She hates them . So she takes a bite and this is at a big table full of people . She goes oh , this is literally the worst thing I've ever tasted .
Speaker 1Oh , my God .
Speaker 2Wow , she's a good one . She has no shame . The funniest part is there was one Shabbat where someone brought a dessert and she thought I made it and she , she goes . Oh , no , she goes . Oh , this isn't very good . Oh , no , and I was like I was like that wasn't mine and she really bit her tongue . She has no shame . What it's me , what else ? She could be very polite , zero editing skills , exactly .
Speaker 1Which can be funny , is she ?
Speaker 2funny , she's very funny . And she is when I tell you the person she is the harshest with Alex at all , like she just is relentless with , like she loves someone who's also funny that she can volley with yes .
Speaker 1What do you mean ? She's relentless with him .
Speaker 2Oh , she just like , she'll like , she'll just throw things , or she'll pick at things , or she sees something .
Speaker 1Oh okay , cheppel , cheppel , the cheppel , and you know it's cheppel , she cheppers him .
Speaker 2Yeah .
Speaker 1Yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah . No , people who have no editing skills are very funny . Case in point my father oh wow . My father has what's on his mind is out of his mouth in one swoop . So it's very funny sometimes because it's not like held back anything . Yeah , and my mother's no different .
Speaker 2I mean you got to you , you got to mean her , we experienced your mother .
Speaker 1Yeah she's very sweet . She's very , very sweet . Oh my God , that's okay . So the tour's coming up and all that .
Speaker 3And Wait , I just noticed that you brought forks . Oh , of course .
Speaker 2He's like fully prepared guys , like he comes in with a .
Speaker 3Tupperware full of cake and forks . Even Should we have a little . Have a little Like this is hospitality .
Speaker 2I believe in curating , like curating what you want out of life . So if you want to do something and it's so funny because it's the opposite of there've been a couple of instances where I've been around people who are in like the music or acting industry and they like kind of force a performance in a situation that , like , is very awkward and weird , which doesn't work , and yet there's never a wrong time to bring out a little cake . Like it's just like the best , it's the best thing , on that note .
Speaker 1Borochata Dona Melchambore , my name is Onot . I mean , wow , oh my .
Speaker 2God , it's a good one . It's a good one .
Speaker 1I will say this .
Speaker 2This book is so many recipes that are both like new inventions as well as so many old family recipes .
Speaker 3What are some of the things that you're most excited for people to like , see and try in the book . So there's a full besides this yeah , yeah yeah .
Speaker 1That is really the next level .
Speaker 2I mean , since it's coming out right before Roche , there's a brand new brisket that I love .
Speaker 1Are you in that school , like my mother , that the year can't change unless a brisket is made .
Speaker 2That is insane when I tell you there is no world without a brisket . Any special occasion , any holiday , there needs to be a brisket , doesn't matter if you're making chicken , doesn't matter if you're making salmon , it also needs to be a brisket , a supplementary brisket , exactly .
Speaker 1You know what ? It's a meat eater , my mother . If there's no brisket , like the year won't change , like the calendar will get stuck .
Speaker 2That's tradition . That's tradition .
Speaker 1And it's like do go and eat brisket . Yes , go and eat brisket , yeah , but they don't not as much as we eat it . Not that we eat it . They do like smoked barbecue brisket yeah , we eat it , and then , like for three days , yeah , it's a little fragile .
Speaker 3I love , I love . So you have the brisket recipe , I do have a chicken .
Speaker 2I call it , alex named it . My husband named it soupless chicken soup , because it's a roast chicken with all of the vegetables and flavors of like Jewish penicillin . So it has all of that kind of vibe without the soup . For the desserts , I have the Simis cake , I have these , this apple cake for my great grandmother . That's like half cake , half pie . Maybe I'll bring that for Lumber Day . I need to figure out what's the final Tupperware situation .
Speaker 3Yeah the final round . The final round , it has to be huge .
Speaker 1It has to be huge .
Speaker 2It has to be huge .
Speaker 3It has very nice . You know we've been vacationing with you and Alex and you you take . He is obviously so sweet and you take such good care of him and you're always making him little plates and like it's so obvious that , that is your love language to him and he loves it and it's interesting , like , does he give you he's ? I've heard him give you like some feedback and ideas and stuff , so he named this recipe . He's my muse , yeah .
Speaker 2He is the only opinion that matters oh really . Truly . And he'll come to me and he'll be like like what about that ? He'll like name an ingredient Like I'd be like . What about ? Like something like that with this ?
Speaker 3Yeah .
Speaker 2And and then I'll think about it . I was like , huh , actually that would work really well . Perfect example there's this recipe in my book . One of my things is like what do you do with a loaf of challah ? We always end up with bread and that's kind of the perfect things , like everyone always has challah on hand in the freezer in your pantry . So one of the things I do is like these , these challah schnitzel sandwiches . So you make schnitzel , you can make it fresh , it's delicious , schnitzel is also great . The next day on a sandwich , and I was trying to figure out like what direction to take it as a sandwich , and he was just saying he's like do you know what ? I remember , cause he grew up in Switzerland and one of his favorite things is this thing called , called remoulade , which is just like the celery root coleslaw , oh wow . And he's like I want that .
Speaker 2And he's like you should do something with that . And it was kind of like exactly what I needed . And then I made it into this like schnitzel , like this French schnitzel sandwich . So I added like herbs de provence to the schnitzel and then I add the celery root on top and cornichon . I'm hungry . And it was and it was just an on challah and that's the perfect thing is like you use soft challah with the crunchy schnitzel and it's like that .
Speaker 2I love textures and kind of a lot of that stuff and it was born from , from him , from just one little off comment that you never know what's going to spark , which is why I actually don't surround myself with many food people . I love creatives from like other fields , which is why I'm you always see me with comedians , with actors , with Broadway people . I'm not a Broadway guy , I can't tell you any of these songs , but I love the craziest nights of that Broadway show night . Yes , oh , my God , we did know one song we went to show tunes , are you not ?
Speaker 3eating .
Speaker 2But yet we had , because we had a Tony nominated actor is just crashing on our couch and it's like right you have these moments where you get to be surrounded by other creatives who are so passionate about what they do . Yes , and you never know what's going to be that one and you have no connection to it .
Speaker 1I have no connection Besides you and the food and eating . I have no connection to to food , exactly , I've , I've , I don't want to cook anything , I don't want to have a clean dish , I mean , it's so young .
Speaker 3But it's so funny what you said about creatives like being on and your way of being on is actually just you . You handed me this .
Speaker 1No , but also also a personality . Personality Also , there's love in that cake . No , I know , it's not just the cake . I can't stop eating it .
Speaker 2There was this one moment where , literally , I'm going around , I was like it was this one , it was this around Seder , my friend , through this thing . I'm not like . I mean naturally . I mean these brownies , these kosher of Passover brownies . I'm like hand feeding Deborah messing brown , like you got to eat one . You got to eat one , like in a way that was so pushy , because it's like I see all these people and no one's having dessert . You got to have a little something sweet .
Speaker 1Oh yeah , yes , I remember . One night you came to our house and no one ate your dessert .
Speaker 2Because no one was hungry . I was crushed . It might as well , they might as well call me fat , like I would tell you one thing .
Speaker 1Everybody asks me when they see you on the videos with us how does he stay so thin ? The number one thing I know I'm like oh , I'm going to stay so thin .
Speaker 2You must not eat , you don't eat ?
Speaker 1Does he eat ? Does he eat ? He doesn't eat , he doesn't eat . No , eat is what it is .
Speaker 2I will say it is a discipline that requires so much work . So much work to do it all , because I'm also have no self control . So I'm like I'm not eating this right now . I had last night . I made it , cut myself a slice . That night I had someone over . I cut them a slice , cut myself another slice . Alex came home , you want a little ? Okay , I'll have another bite . It's just like .
Speaker 3I will say I was skeptical too . I was like how does he look the way he looks and make all this beautiful food ? But then again , we lived in the house with you for a few weeks and you work out like a crazy person . Yeah , you sit by all over the place .
Speaker 2I sit by here .
Speaker 3You're , you , you're burning off the cake , so you , you need it , you need it .
Speaker 1You need it . Bless your heart . Yeah , yeah , yeah , good for you . No , no , we everybody's obsessed with that . What he has , he doesn't need his stuff . He doesn't need his stuff Now . He eats his stuff . We've seen him eat Also .
Speaker 3I mean , we don't , you can . You can tell us to cut this if you don't want to talk about this , but it's been interesting because when we were out in Fire Island , you were also giving us previews for things for your third book .
Speaker 1Yes .
Speaker 3So , like this new book isn't even out yet , you're already brainstorming and brewing for the third . Hold on .
Speaker 1Speaking of the shift with Sarah yeah , to get your new book is obviously pre-order and all my friends have . Dina already has a pre-order at this and everybody . Sarah the lit agent , I'm your lit agent . We pre-ordered , um uh , dina pre-order . All of our friends pre-ordered already . Right , love , but she always has ways of like different .
Speaker 2Yes , so she has some recipes that didn't land in the book .
Speaker 2We had to come , but what I wanted to do was , um , it was actually it was . It was a really fun conversation because my editor emails me . We want the book to come out September 5th . I call her up . That's impossible . I'm coming back from Fire Island that day . I'm not going to . I was like . I was like I'm on vacation . I'm not going straight into a press tour . I'm going to be sunburned . I'm going to be like exhausted . Good for you , I can't do it . We're pushing into weeks . September 12th the only thing is it comes out on Tuesday . That Friday is Erefrashashana , right ? Um , and I was like , well , here's what we're going to do .
Speaker 2Pre-orders are super important , if any , if you like , if you want to support someone . Like pre-ordering is a great way to give , like the um , the publisher , a good idea of like how's the book going to do , how much re , how many resources they're going to get towards marketing . And a big thing is , it's like I always want fame for myself as separate I . That's why it's like you see my face , but really it's like you don't know a lot about me . You know more about , like , what I'm cooking , because I want all of the fame , all of the energy towards the recipes , towards the book I think it's changed a little bit throughout the summer they got to know you a little bit closer from your Instagram posts .
Speaker 1I mean sex sells Sex sells .
Speaker 2Um , but one of the things I'm super important was like everyone's going to be playing the rush on a meals , so I was like great . The second you pre-order my book , you get eight recipes that are rush on up ready to start cooking . So a you could like start cooking book as soon as you pre-order and B , you could start planning your menu , these desserts . I've gotten so many messages from people who have made the Simis cake and they're like this is the best cake I've ever made .
Speaker 3It's really the best . It's like crazy . I'm eating it . It's a Simis cake .
Speaker 1I don't describe what Tim is . Do people know what Simis is ?
Speaker 2Yeah , it's a stew , it's like . It's like quote we love . We love sweet things as a savory side dish . Um , and this is like a sweet carrot and sweet potato squash , like stew with prunes and cinnamon and orange .
Speaker 1It's so Ashkenazi , though Ashkenazi love to eat and go . It's like dessert .
Speaker 3So wait , your first book , jewish right . That was more of like a traditional cookbook I could Nosh is smaller scale hospitality , would you say every day hospitality .
Speaker 2So it's like think of , it starts with a challah section . So every once you master a yeast to dough , these are all the things you can do with challah . So you can make Moses in a blanket where you're wrapping hot dogs , which is literally the best snack in the world . To like challah monkey bread , which is beyond , beyond , beyond , um , making burger buns , all these things of what you can do . If you don't want to make two challahs , if you want to just make one and use the other half of the dough for something else , then we go into breakfast stuff where I have a whole section of shmirs . So you're buying your bagels . Here's how you shush up your shmirs , um , and then it's like soups , salads , sandwiches , what's your everyday things and how you're eating the things to keep in the house . You don't have three quarts of soup in your freezer for , like , what's going to happen when you get sick ? What , like ? That's a crazy . It's crazy , yeah .
Speaker 1I told you .
Speaker 2You always have to have soup in the freezer , and then the entrees made you buy me soup and keep it one time I accidentally bought like $200 worth of soup .
Speaker 1Yeah , we had nothing wrong with that From being vegetarian , of course . Of course you never .
Speaker 2It's never a wrong time for lentil soup .
Speaker 3I didn't know what a pint versus a quart was , I think .
Speaker 2No , I love it . And then the entrees are split into either like recipes that come together in less than an hour , so like quick , someone's coming over and we cook dinner , or like project recipes that yield tons of leftovers , so you have something in the fridge or the freezer to like read . And then the desserts are snacking cakes and cookies . The whole idea is like you should have something sweet on the counter . How do you define a snacking cake versus a cake that can just stay out ? Really , it's like not a layer cake , nothing that's too precious , nothing like like Dina has in the corner in her kitchen .
Speaker 1She has a whole dessert , a whole dessert . Like if you should never and no one eats it , I eat it .
Speaker 3I eat it whenever I'm there .
Speaker 1Yeah , dina has like all over the counter , that's exactly what you're talking about .
Speaker 2To snag , cut a little slice , you're having a cup of coffee and all the chapters are named I love , I love a reference . I love a reference to some kind of Jewish TV show movie . So all of the chapters are references to , like my favorite quotes . So like the soup section is called we Both Love Soup , which is obviously from Best In Shell From Best In Shell .
Speaker 3We say that all the time . We both love soup , we both love soup .
Speaker 2The cake section is called who Serves Coffee Without a Piece of Cake ?
Speaker 3Right .
Speaker 2From Seinfeld when George's mother says or sitting there like idiot's drinking coffee without a piece of cake , right , and so the idea is , it's so ingrained in our culture of like , how do you feed someone , how do you feed those you love , and I feel like we're really like reclaiming this idea of like it's so easy to turn your home into your center for hospitality . You don't have to be meeting people outside . It's the only way you make deep connections is by welcoming people into your home 100% .
Speaker 1We have a beautiful home , you do , and we invite people over , and if someone ever wants to meet me for lunch or whatever for works , I go . No , no , no . You come to our apartment . There's no waiter sitting on top of you . Do you know what you're having ? Do you know what you're having ? Let me get that . No , we're quiet , and Leo this week actually made an amazing salmon .
Speaker 1But , when we order in , and then we order in and then we just throw it all out , so we're not sitting in the kitchen cleaning , so our guests don't feel bad that we cooked for them and made for them and all of that . That's your whole journey on your own , but we , you know .
Speaker 3So , yes , when they come to the house and you're eating in your own home , I can't not cook , I just don't know how to grocery shop , and I know that sounds counterintuitive .
Speaker 2No , no , no . I get to have like a fridge full of stuff that's rotting and this whole . I know you're on the road .
Speaker 1Okay , so so the book by now . By the time this airs the , will it be available ?
Speaker 3to buy up to you ? Oh no , I mean , we can , just the schedule .
Speaker 1So we can just the just the Shmir .
Speaker 2Let's Shmir it Maybe probably like right before it comes out . Yeah , okay .
Speaker 1So I always say be the friend that brings the friends to the comedy show . Be the friend that buys the book , not only for your Jewish friends . This is exactly what you buy for your non-Jewish friends . Give them that little taste , that little moody comedy that they feel like they're apart , they're in our world , they're in the tribe . Here it is . This is the reference . This is delicious . If a non Jew eats this cake , he'll understand why the Jews have survived all these years .
Speaker 2They'll understand you get it . I think that's so spot on , cause I always say the person who's single-handedly done more for American Jewry than any other individual is Fran Drusher . What she did with the nanny of making America fall in love with Jews , listen , I love . I love Larry David , I love Jerry Seinfeld , but the whole the whole gist of Seinfeld and Kerb is that these are not likeable people .
Speaker 2These are bad people , like , but with the nanny you just love them . You see yourself , your families , in these people that just happen to be so proudly Jewish , and that's the power of comedy , that's the power of food , which are able to create that connection across cultures . So many people that aren't Jewish reach out and they're like oh my God , I love the dynamic between you and your mother , between your mother and her aunt , because that's just like me and my family and that's what you want . You want to create those bridges . Amazing . And how do they get this book ? Wherever books are sold ? Obviously , we love an indie bookstore , but it is all on Amazon Vards and Noble . They're signed copies on premiere Like . If you go to my website or my Instagram , I have everything linked very easily . It's Chef Jay Cohen , just Jay Cohen .
Speaker 1Just Jay Cohen , just Jay Cohen . I have you , I have you say this Chef , jay Cohen , I love that , I think I love that . So , jay Cohen , wow , I can't believe you got that as your Instagram .
Speaker 2I paid a child for it . This was years ago . Was it like a preteen who have no idea ?
Speaker 3Oh my God , was it the domain or the ?
Speaker 2handle the handle . I always think of people . It was like a 13 year old .
Speaker 1Never someone named Mike Bernstein , like there must be 4,000 Mike Bernstein . There are a lot of Jay Cohen's , of course , a lot of Jay Cohen's , yeah .
Speaker 2So what happened was and this was years ago , this was probably like six years ago , six , seven years ago and you'll never guess how much I paid him for it . We don't have that , We'll bleep it out $25 .
Speaker 1No .
Speaker 2Wow , I was just ready for something crazy . I would have paid two grand , like whatever .
Speaker 3Listen . Branding the handles all that stuff .
Speaker 1Listen me , I wanted by Modicom . Modi's a huge name in India .
Speaker 2So there's a name of the president .
Speaker 1There's Modicom was taken by some like a travel company or whatever a carpet sales people . A lot of Indian companies were taken and the president's name is Modi , but I got Modi live and it became like Modi live . Which is , by the way , it's really great because Modi , modi , modi , high live it's great , it's a good little , it works Anyway .
Speaker 2So people love calling . I know people like oh , you know , modi live Right , right , right . They do .
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Speaker 3You're a superstar .
Speaker 1You're a superstar . You're really , in the summer , a real , real soul . Thank you for coming back .
Speaker 3Thanks for coming back .
Speaker 1And you're always invited .
Speaker 2You know that Any time Standing guests I'll bike here Anytime you want .
Speaker 3What do you do it ? What do you do it ? I don't have to bring cake every time I probably will .
Speaker 1Okay , me I am . We've announced a whole bunch of tour dates Milwaukee , charlotte , north Carolina and Atlanta , atlanta . The tickets are available on mori livecom .
Speaker 3We also have shows that are we were at this time adding shows in Israel for Sukkot . We're adding a second Tel Aviv show . There's a lot of things going on , so go to mori livecom mori livecom .
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Speaker 3Thank you .
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